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Why Grown Men Should Cry More Often

This past Christmas, Jennifer and I sat in a quiet house. That…

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By Gary Frey December 27, 2025

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Rest Is Not a Reward—It’s Strategy

This season isn’t about sprinting to the finish line. It’s about stepping…

By Rhett Power December 26, 2025

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Stop Rockin’ Christmas, Start Leading With Intent

Every December, leaders crank up the volume. Parties. Sprints. Last-minute pushes. We…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By Gary Frey December 25, 2025

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Receiving Is Not Greed—It’s Responsible Generosity

The holidays remind us to give. We give time, money, and kindness.…

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By David Meltzer December 25, 2025

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Money Is A Tool For Good

Money gets a bad rap. People say it causes problems, steals peace,…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By David Meltzer December 25, 2025

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Lead Like a Drummer Not a Diva

Business leadership often sounds like a solo. It should feel like a…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By Gary Frey December 24, 2025

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Stop Interfering With Your Energy Every Night

People often ask about my morning routine. My answer surprises them. My…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By David Meltzer December 24, 2025

daily consistency beats occasional effort

Daily Minutes Beat Weekend Marathons In Life

Consistency is the most underrated force in growth. As a coach, a…

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By David Meltzer December 23, 2025

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Stop Letting Familiarity Rob Your Wonder

Cold air wakes me up fast, but it’s not the only jolt…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By Gary Frey December 23, 2025