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lead like drummer not diva

Lead Like a Drummer Not a Diva

Business leadership often sounds like a solo. It should feel like a…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By Gary Frey December 24, 2025

stop interfering with your energy

Stop Interfering With Your Energy Every Night

People often ask about my morning routine. My answer surprises them. My…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By David Meltzer December 24, 2025

daily consistency beats occasional effort

Daily Minutes Beat Weekend Marathons In Life

Consistency is the most underrated force in growth. As a coach, a…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By David Meltzer December 23, 2025

stop letting familiarity rob wonder

Stop Letting Familiarity Rob Your Wonder

Cold air wakes me up fast, but it’s not the only jolt…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By Gary Frey December 23, 2025

servant leadership begins with humility

Servant Leadership Starts With One Humble Choice

As we head into Christmas, I’m thinking about what real leadership looks…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/gary_frey-48x48.jpg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="Gary Frey" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By Gary Frey December 20, 2025

meditation as emergency maintenance practice

Meditation Isn’t Optional—It’s Emergency Maintenance

Meditation is not a luxury. It is emergency maintenance for the mind.…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By David Meltzer December 20, 2025

meditation essential for noisy life

Meditation Is Non-Negotiable In A Noisy Life

Meditation is not a luxury for quiet mornings; it is a daily…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By David Meltzer December 20, 2025

add zero change business destiny

Add a Zero, Change Your Business Destiny

Entrepreneurs get burned, and then they pull back. I have done it.…

By Justin Donald December 20, 2025

why i pray for people who hurt me the transformative power of prayer

Why I Pray For People Who Hurt Me

I’ve spent decades coaching athletes, founders, and leaders. I’ve won and lost…

<img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==" class="avatar avatar-44 photo ewww_webp" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" data-src-img="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" data-src-webp="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg.webp" data-eio="j" /><noscript><img loading="lazy" width="44" height="44" src="https://www.selfemployed.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/david_meltzer-48x48.jpeg" class="avatar avatar-44 photo" alt="David Meltzer" decoding="async" loading="lazy" />

By David Meltzer December 19, 2025